One topic that comes up frequently in wargaming magazines is that of proselytizing. Apparently it is important for us to increase our numbers. Many times, there is an inference that there must be a lot of us as a reaction against being thought of as children who play with toys. Other articles say that playing with fantasy toys is identical to historical miniature wargaming and collecting. Others write that our numbers will be inherently small because true wargamers are intelligent, extremely well read, and versed in their armies and, ideally in all armies. I pass no comment or judgement on the above as it is ridiculous to ever argue or vilify in our cerebral pastime as this lessens the beauty of learning about history which is perhaps our only form of immortality through being remembered by the living when gone. One thing does bear comment however, in a society where teenagers are asked for their advice as to how to dress, act, and lead. It would seem that many articles talk about the joy of seeing slim, young and enthusiastic new converts to gaming. This would be the antipode of Chinese society where the old are looked upon for advice based on their years of study and wisdom. If we are not to be ageists, I think it would be fair to revel in going to a convention and seeing masses of elderly wargamers participating. Would a Neophyte who has studied history for forty years be able to contribute? What about a veteran who was at Normandy; could we ask one to help us understand just a little of how it was? Although I am twenty years away from social security, I have dedicated the last twenty years to caring for people over 65. I can assure you that they are a magnificent group; they are our treasure and their minds can be minded for sagacious advice. After the battle of Hydaspes, Alexander asked Porus, the defeated, how should he be treated and he said "Like a King". When asked what this meant, he said that this encompasses all. The next time you game at home or at a convention, invite an old person, then write an article (with pride) about all the bald heads and gray hair present. The kids are still invited and welcome always, but maybe we can "honor thy father and mother". Good advice that holds up for the last 3,000 years. Back to MWAN #92 Table of Contents Back to MWAN List of Issues Back to MagWeb Magazine List © Copyright 1998 Hal Thinglum This article appears in MagWeb (Magazine Web) on the Internet World Wide Web. Other military history articles and gaming articles are available at http://www.magweb.com